Post Shabbat Post

So I skipped my morning run. I’m meeting a friend for an 8-10 mile run tomorrow morning and since I’m running my first official half Marathon (my distance record is 20 miles run with a 7 mile walk at the end) so 13.1 shouldn’t be much of an issue. But I did figure I’d skip today’s run, just to make sure I didn’t over do it the week before my race.  I did a little strength training instead, but that is way less time consuming than a 10-12 mile run. Yet we were still late for shul. The kids were not exactly cooperative on the walk, but we got there.  We dropped Josh at Torah kids, and had a little time before Torah Tots. Elijah didn’t want to sit up stairs for the main services so Melissa took him down to play in the Torah Tots room, and I got a little mediative time in the grownup service.

At some point I excused myself and made my way down to Torah tots. We had our usual blast. Singing songs, playing with all the kids. After Torah Tots kiddish we went upstairs for the main kiddish, I mean hey why not eat more food. Although I didn’t.  Someone twisted my arm and dragged me into the kitchen for a L’Chaim in the Kitchen Scotch club. Yes I even have my own glass with my name labeled on it. The scotch was good but I limited myself to a 1/2 shot because of my don’t worry by happy pills. I didn’t end up actually eating anything and we had no Shabbat Lunch offers so we walked home with some neighbors who were silly enough to offer to walk with us. Not that we don’t enjoy their company but they just had to push a stroller and we had a 3 & 5 year old in less than corporative moods.

Lunch was had and we hung out in the family room. Elijah played a board game with Melissa and Josh has been desperately wanting to help me with the Egret poems. We don’t drive or run errands but we do use our computers and turn on and off electricity on shabbat. Big shocker for most of the community who has seen me jogging with headphones before services. I read him a preview of the next Egret poem. He loves it by the way and Melissa said she did as well. Even though these are first drafts I still need to double check my spelling before posting. Anyway as I said Josh really wants to help me write the poems/stories.

So I started to think of ideas on how we can do that without messing with my own creative process. So I outlined for him what they were going to do in the next story and I asked him for ideas of things they might want to eat, and things they might want to do. I guided him as much as I could. This poem will have at least one mini song in their and he actually came up with the first two lines. OK I had to rearrange the last couple of words so they rhymed but he had a good meter and flow. I actually got a chance to write most of that poem. So whenever I get a chance to edit tomorrow the next two Egret stories will be out either Sunday, Monday or Monday, Tuesday.  Much will depend on how much work I get in the garden tomorrow. Anyway Josh was thrilled to help and I think will be really excited when he hears his song (or part of it anyway) in the poem.

Then I went off to PSAL (Potomac Scotch and Learning) with a great bunch of guys and good friends who are all for the most part shomer shabbos. We sit around drinking scotch and discussing Gemara. Many of these guys are ridiculously brilliant.  One guy is a Rabbi, Ophthalmologist and Geneticist.  Of course there are several lawyers and a few doctors.  Most of these guys had a pretty formal Jewish upbringing so I am at a distinct disadvantage, but I seem to hold my own in the conversation and occasionally make some valid points. I don’t drink much, for the most part, only on Shabbat, but I can hold my liquor. I guess it is a holdover from my bartender days. As I mentioned before I need to be careful mixing alcohol with my Don’t worry Be Happy Pills. For the most part I did, I stayed on the right side of sober, but may of revealed an pretty big indiscretion from my youthful single days.  Fortunately what happens at Josh London’s house, stays at Josh London’s house. And again I was young and single at the time.

Flat roofs suck

Tropical storm/Hurricane whatever came and went this weekend.  Shockingly our above ground power lines held and we were not deprived of necessities such as coffee and hot showers.  We did however have a roof leak.  Climbing on my roof in the middle of a tropical storm is just not as much fun as it sounds.  Fortunately we found the leak before it could destroy our memory foam, OMG the best money we have ever spent, bed.  My roof was covered end to end in 4 inches of water.   It looked like a giant baby pool.  I sloshed my way to drain; look down the three stories to our patio and garden (we have a walkout basement), grateful that I have no fear of heights, and see standing water in the gutter housing. I reached in as far as I could – no leaves, no crud, and no luck.  The block was probably somewhere down the side of the house.  I figured I had two choices.  I could stand up there with a bucket for the rest of the storm or I could rip the gutter housing thing off and let the water drain down the side of the building unencumbered.  I choose option number two.  We have a decent size townhouse; so needless to say, it took a while to drain.  I have a gutter person coming out to give me an estimate.  My understanding was the previous owners had replaced the roof sometime in the last few years.  Hopefully it is under warranty. 

I has new Diaper/Man bag and yes it is the Ju-Ju-Be

Say what you want, but I got myself a new Diaper/Man Bag.  I know, I poo-pooed the Ju-Ju-Be on twitter. Actually, I admitted it was a great bag and my wife had and loved it, but I was looking for something a little more masculine.  We went to Great Beginnings on Saturday, can somebody please explain to me why a large retail story is not open on Sundays.   After trying multiple bags including some book bag backpack style bags, Ju-Ju-be was the clear winner.  Not only is it a backpack, but with a simple pull of the strap it becomes a shoulder bag.  It has two side pockets for bottles and two large pouches on the front that close with magnetic snaps, which is seriously convenient if you need to grab something quick.  Main compartment is zippered with lots of organizer compartments for baby stuff.  On the backside there is a pouch for the changing pad, as to not take up precious interior space.  This bag was seriously well thought out, spacious and comfortable.  Fully stocked I can still drop in my Macbook and a hardcover or two.  They actually had a couple androgynous styles to choose from but I decided to go with something fun.   

Port Discovery and the Baltimore Harbor

Yesterday we took Joshua on a quick day trip to the Baltimore Harbor.  From our house it is a about a 45 minute trip, an hour if you miss the exit to 95.  The gods of weather smiled kindly on us.  When we first arrived it was beautiful and sunny so we took Joshua out on his first paddle boat ride.  We had to fudge his age by 6 months, but he’s a big kid and managed to pass for two.  We ended up picking a gianormous dragon shaped paddle boat.  Next time we are going for smaller and/or electric.  We all had a blast but Melissa and I were exhausted by the time we done.  After working up an appetite we decide to grab some lunch a Cheesecake Factory.   In general I am not a big fan of chain restaurants, but typically Cheesecake is pretty passable.  Not so much this time.  It wasn’t particularly bad, but wasn’t good either.  Service was fine, Cheesecake rarely fails in that area, but wait times were very long which is never fun with a toddler.  Back to the weather gods, it poured while we ate, by the time we finished it was dry and cool enough for a leisurely strolled to the kids museum, Port Discovery. 

 

Port Discovery was a blast.  Honestly Joshua was a little too young for most of the exhibits, but there was still plenty for him to do.  He loved to water works and the wooden train.  The place is pretty impressive; I am looking forward to going back when he is a little older.  Apparently our good weather karma continued as it poured while were in the Museum but once again cleared up for our walk back to the car and drive home.   Photos are on my Flickr & facebook pages, along with our Saturday hike at Great Falls. 

Weekend update

Had a wonderful weekend.  I didn’t do any writing, but you know what, that is OK.  I don’t think I spent more then 15 minutes at my computer all weekend.  Not to say I embraced a luddite way of life, I had my trusty iPhone, even made a couple Joshua related blog post straight from the Jesus phone.   I did not think about work until I hit the gym this morning – work related reading material in hand.  While the pregnant 4pm Friday before a holiday weekend phone call did indeed come, I had left at 2 and no one bothered my cell.  What I did do this weekend was spent quality time with my wife and son.  We read, gardened, shopped, hung photos on previously barren walls, played with Joshua, rode the CJ Park train and went for walks.  Actually Melissa walked and pushed the jogging stroller and I strapped on the roller blades and entertained Joshua with my wheeling around.  It was a wonderful weekend filled with family, love and joy.  It was a beautiful reminder of why I get up every morning; battle the demons (traffic, work and personal) happily and without reservation. 

Recent Updates

Real Life

 

Saturday was gardening day.   Took a trip to Lowe’s and the Potomac Gardening Center and came away with lots of plants, flowers, herbs and vegetables.  I never thought I would get into gardening but I found it relaxing, rejuvenating and was filled with a sense of accomplishment.  I think I did a pretty good job and I am really looking forward to the veggies and herbs coming up.  I have a few pictures on Flicker if you want to check out the fruits of my labor.   Saturday evening, I helped my brother load up a U-haul to help with their impending move.  Between the gardening and the packing I was expecting to be pretty sore but I am actually feeling OK. 

 

Sunday morning Melissa taught a Yoga class so I babysat* Joshua.  Anyways, we drove to downtown Bethesda, walked around and grabbed some breakfast.   We ate in the courtyard in front of Barnes & Nobles and it was good bonding time.  Joshua went wild for all of the dogs on show.  He really loves animals. 

 

Joshua is now officially a toddler, I wish we caught it on video…  He has been cruising and walking with push toys since he was 7 months but refused to take a step without a toy, hand or piece of furniture for assistance.  That is until yesterday.   Well a couple weeks ago he started to take a few “unassisted” steps. Basically he had to already be walking with a decent amount of forward momentum, and we would have to pull our hand away.  We would take a few steps and sit down or dive into the couch.  Yesterday was different; I actually got him to take about 19 steps from a standing position.  It was pretty amazing to actually get to be there for such a huge first.    

 

Fiction

 

I got some writing done this weekend and even had a little break through on one of my projects.**  My protagonist has a mentor whose motivation for helping I have never quite been able to pin down.  Basically I had him call her on it.  Hey – why are you helping me…  I am not planning on keeping any of it, or at least not most of it.  It was more an exercise in understanding.  Biggest thing I realized, she is lying and my protag is too damn trusting – going to have to toughen him up. 

 

*Although I don’t think babysitting is the appropriate term when it’s your kid. 

 

**Maybe I would get one done if I actually worked on them one at a time.

Random Updates

This was a good weekend for getting thing things accomplished.  And when I say things I mean concrete real world stuff.  Unfortunately not one word penned to paper.  I did think up a short story involving a disastrously bad President but I quickly realized that it wasn’t going anywhere.  I couldn’t bring myself to make him likeable and any other direction I took it in was just too damn depressing. 

 

Our new community has an annual tradition around Passover where they arrange for the removal of large items*.  I believe they give anything in working order to charity and toss the garbage.  So I spent Sunday, hauling crap to the curb.  Yes, even though we just moved in, we had/have plenty of crap.  Some brought with some left behind by the previous owners.  I even did a little weeding in the garden.  This was after helping fulfill some family obligations** on Saturday.

 

We finally put up our Mezuzahs on our front and back door.  We even said the prayer.  Interestingly enough, we pulled out our Judaism for Dummies guide, we realized we had installed it in on the wrong side of the door at our old Condo.  Anyway, I really wanted to get it done before Passover and it is done so I feel good about that. 

 

 

*Our community has a large Orthodox Jewish population and it is common to clean out ones house in preparation for Passover.  Growing up I was unaware of this tradition as my family wasn’t particularly observant.  Not to say I was completely ignorant of Jewish tradition.  I knew enough to know why it was amusing that one of our cousins brought a Ham to a Passover Seder.  And the irony was not lost on me that we had a family tradition of breaking the Yum Kippur fast by gorging ourselves on Pork, Crab and Shrimp dishes at our favorite Chinese Restaurant. 

 

 

** My brother and I hauled bags of mulch from the driveway to the backyard of my parent’s house.  Additionally I had the added joy of climbing in to a cobweb infested crawlspace in their basement to turn on their outside water faucet.

Saturday Plans

Sleep until whatever time allowed by Melissa and Josh 

Scoop the poop. I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats, I love the cats… 

Perfect a beautiful cup of Kona coffee in the French Press 

Enjoy said coffee 

Take Josh to see the Cherry Blossoms  

Write 

Take the wife to an early movie 

Relax on the new couch

Random updates

Home: Closed on both places – moved in and mostly unpacked.  Well, the essentials are unpacked, I am afraid we will be living with boxes for sometime.  Our new dinning room set will be delivered tomorrow.  We had the baby proofing service out this weekend; they will be back to finish the job tomorrow.   Our new couch and Chair & ½ should be here sometime next year (or the end of March).  I am very happy to be able to grill again. 

Josh:  Josh was cleared by both the Pediatrician and Pediatric GI for all foods except shellfish and nuts. Yeah! No more liquid gold formula.  More importantly it has been so much fun seeing Josh discover all sorts of new eats.  We had a nice little family get together for his first birthday.  He cried his way though his first haircut.  He is still not walking, which is surprising since he has been cruising (walking along the edge of furniture) and walking if you hold his hand forever.  Maybe now that he has some carpet to play on he will take some unassisted steps.  Personally I think he just realizes he can get from point A to B much faster by crawling…   

Melissa:  She wonderful as usual.  She has been a little stressed about the move and unpacking, but now that things are really coming together she is finally starting to relax.  She has had a couple problems with her eyes and the Doctor said no contacts.  She hates wearing her glasses but I think they are totally geeky hot.  

It has been an extraordinarily hectic month and I am working on my third cold of the season(this is crazy not sure what’s up with my immune system).  I plan to get all flickred up shortly with some pictures of the new digs and various recent events.

This is going to be quite a week.

Thursday is Josh’s fist birthday.  I can’t believe he is going to be one.  This year is just –wow- I don’t have words

Friday we close on our current Condo.  It going to feel weird renting back, but we still have a few weeks before we can close and move into our new townhouse.

Saturday is Josh’s birthday party. 

Unfortunately Josh won’t be able to eat any of his birthday cake.  He is still on a no dairy or wheat diet.  Now that he has reached a year we can start introducing the restricted foods, but it is a slow process – table spoon here and see how he reacts. Most kids with dairy/wheat allergies outgrow it after a year and we are really hoping that Josh has as well.  It will be nice when he can get him off the special formula we refer to as liquid gold, but more importantly I want him to be able to have the ice cream, cake and pizza … the normal birthday party meal.

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